Once again I have found a subject that has been floating around the internet or traveling down from generations with much misinformation. How to clean the intact penis. There is no need to EVER retract your sons penis, not even a little bit. This can cause major trauma and damage and may even lead to the need to circumcise your son. Dont take my word for it, read these articles for yourself.
http://www.askdrsears.com/faq/az3.asp
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/11/raising-intact-sons.html
http://www.circumstitions.com/Care.html
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/easy.htm
I also thought I would include some very helpful links for intact boys and how to NOT retract the foreskin and why:
http://www.drmomma.org/2010/11/forced-retraction-dont-let-it-happen-to.html
And the Intact Care Agreement to have on file at your child's pediatricians office:
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/care.htm